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Bedroom Errors: 5 Common S.ex Mistakes Men Make

As man we have our ego to maintain - but gents, here are some things you could be getting wrong in the bedroom and some solutions on how to do it better - please try them out. 

S.ex starts under the bed sheets
While you may think arousal begins after both of you get naked, under the sheets and are ready to get down and dirty, for many women, arousal isn’t that fast. 

It starts from hugging, sensual texts, kissing and you just appreciating her. Quite surprisingly, did you know that doing housework can also get you more se.x?

Recent research published in the Journal of Family Psychology found that couples that distributed chores more evenly enjoyed more satisfying and regular intercourse.  
These are the Most Common Mistakes Men Make in Bed 

So, grab the gloves and surprise her with some clean dishes and things will go down when they go down.

It should last for hours
The movies make it seem like all-night se.x is the best thing on the face of the planet, but let’s be real… any round of se.x that goes on for longer than 20 minutes (maximum) is just no longer pleasurable for a lot of women. 

And if you’re going for a second and third round, give it some time in between, otherwise you’re just being selfish.

In her in her sleep
We spoke to a few women about how they feel about a man starting to put things in them while they’re sleeping - and the general sentiment was that they hated it. If she’s sleeping, don’t assume that your erection giving her a wake-up call will turn her on. 

But in the same breath, not all women are the same, some women enjoy the surprise of waking up with your jewels in theirs – and that’s why it’s important to have open communication when it comes to what you both like and don’t like.

Sticking to your norm
One of the biggest mistakes that men make when it comes to sex is not switching things up, assuming that because something has worked five times, it will work forever. 

Just because a particular position or the way you touched her in a certain place caused a particular response, doesn’t mean that you must make that your everyday formula.

Much of what turns her on can depend on her mood and where she is in her monthly cycle, so while some things might work all the time, switch it up as much as you can. 

Also, when you do find something that works in that moment, don’t be quick to move on to the next thing. Many women hate the fact that men tend to move on to the next thing just as they were starting to enjoy the other thing, so don’t be hasty.

Intercourse should always equal orgasm
Did you know that intercourse isn’t the thing that will give her an orgasm most of the time? 

According to Web MD, 80% of women orgasm from oral sex than from intercourse. “To help her hit the high note when you do have se.x, take time to get her going before you make your entrance. 

"The closer women are [to climaxing] when they start intercourse, the more likely they are to have an orgasm.” - Online Sources 

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